Relationship Red Flag Calculator

Communication issues: Choose how often communication problems happen in the relationship. Controlling behavior: Choose how strongly one partner tries to control the other person's choices or actions. Jealousy or trust issues: Choose how severe jealousy, suspicion, or trust problems feel in the relationship. Respect level: Choose how often disrespect, put-downs, or dismissive behavior happens. Honesty: Choose how often lying or hiding important things happens in the relationship. Emotional support: Choose how supportive your partner is when you need reassurance, care, or understanding. Conflict handling: Choose how arguments are usually handled, from calm discussion to aggressive or manipulative behavior.

It scores common warning signs such as controlling behavior, dishonesty, poor conflict handling, and lack of emotional support to show an overall risk level.

Lower scores suggest fewer warning signs, while higher scores point to more serious patterns that may need attention or outside support.

No. This calculator is for awareness only and should not replace support from a qualified relationship counselor, therapist, or other professional.